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7 Major Steps For Achieving Massive Success

Only those who are willing to pay the price will ever get the chance to have a taste of success.

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The other day, a man in his early 20’s approached me and asked me for advice. “Daniel, I’m a young and broke college student with two children. Could you show me what to do to become a millionaire?”

Without hesitation, I rebuked him for his question. “How dare you call yourself broke? Is that what you’ve been associating yourself with in the past few years? Is this the way you see yourself?”

“No sir, I just thought…” he murmured. I cut him off, “Look if you want to be rich, you cannot buy into a story of poverty. Even though your circumstances may seem unfavourable at the moment, it doesn’t mean that it will last forever.”

Related: 7 Productivity Beliefs That Get You Nowhere Fast

My answer startled him, but it was the truth. Later on, he realised that no one was going to feel sorry for him and he determined to correct the situation. Only those who are willing to pay the price will ever get the chance to have a taste of success.

Here are seven major steps for achieving massive success:

1. Flow Naturally

The biggest mistake that ambitious people make is that they are too hard on themselves. They set deadlines and demand a lot out of themselves. When they don’t meet their expectations, they end up frustrated, sometimes even hurting themselves in the process.

Oftentimes, being too hard on yourself is the quickest way to burn out and lose hair.

Before I wrote this article, I panicked for three days, wanting to create the perfect piece. I attempted it a few times, but it didn’t quite come out the way I wanted it to. After going through a few rituals, I sat down on Day 4 and pumped it out effortlessly.

Before you create greatness, you must soak up some life experiences and clear your mind. Soon enough, you’ll flow naturally, like this article.

2. Change Your Life Story

Everyone has a life story that they tell themselves and other people. What’s yours? Like the college student, many people play a certain story in their heads. Every time we tell our life story, whether it’s past or present, we believe it more and more.

Don’t relish in poverty, unless you want more of it. Too many people celebrate their broke story in order to seek acceptance from other broke people.

To change your life story, focus on whom you’re becoming. You might not know exactly whom you’ll end up as (who does?), but you can focus on telling yourself and others about who you want to become. Sometimes, I’ll ask the universe to reveal the truth about my path and what I can do to materialise those objectives. Once you create your life story, become obsessed with it and keep feeding into it.

3. Imagine Perfection

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I know of a man who earnestly wanted children for at least a decade. He was in his mid-30’s and had been trying with his wife, but had no success. Eventually, he bought a six-bedroom house that was way too big for him and his wife. However, he placed young photos of his wife and him to resemble his future children (assuming they would look like him).

Related: Cultivate These 11 Habits to Achieve Meaningful Success

He also took 30 minutes each day to tell his “imaginary children” to clean up, do house chores, and go to bed. What were his results? After six months, his wife conceived a child. He now has five children and could go even further if he wanted to. This is the power of acting on your visions and making your dreams a reality. Sometimes, you have to be “delusional” in some way to reach your highest goals.

4. Study Your Desires

On a daily basis, many people indulge in copious amounts of negativity. If you tend to notice, talk about, and identify with war, crime, disease, financial problems, misfortune, or disharmony, this is what you are inviting into your life. If you study miscellaneous things, you will get miscellaneous results. What do you normally study?

Many times, it’s hard to realise the subtle influence that we are exposed to. However, if you want true wealth, you must identify with the state of mind that you would most likely want to associate with. In other words, focus on what you want, not what you don’t want. Why dwell on financial despair when you could scheme up new ways to get the Rolls Royce you may want?

5. Take Care of Business

Before you even get close to what you want, you must take care of the little things. This means that you’ll have to clean out the closet, wash the car, and sweep the floor.

On a bigger scale, it means that you’ll have to find out everything you can about everything you want.

You must practice due diligence and do the necessary work if you want success in your life.

You must constantly eliminate the old if you want the new. I’m sure you can picture the old lady who wants a new purse and shoes, but won’t give away her current stash of purses and shoes in her closet. Many people allow these little setbacks to keep them away from wealth. If you want more money, take care of business.

6. Forget Haters

There’s always been a crowd of people who focus on haters so much that they’re oblivious to the people who are trying to help.

They talk about how everyone is against them and no one supports their behaviours. It’s sad truth is that only haters realise haters. Moreover, dwelling on other people’s opinions will forever prohibit you from living your life.

Related: 8 Entrepreneurial Qualities That Contribute to Success

Instead of focusing on who you don’t want in your life, focus on who you do want in your life. Don’t worry about what ‘they’ think, but take unprecedented action toward your goal. Always search for people who can help you realise your highest goals.

You can do this by creating a “reach out” list of 25 people that you’d want to connect with. Soon enough, you’ll forget about your “haters” since you’ll realise that they were never there in the first place.

7. Become the Best

Real success can only happen when you become the best at what you do. Every day you have a chance to reach your peak performance. This is where you can use your talents, skills, and abilities in the highest capacity. For most people, they’re only using a fraction of what they have since it’s not demanded in their careers.

However, you have to seek a profession that allows you to become the best at what you do. When it comes to performing at the highest level, you must make sure that you’re focused on serving other people, not just doing it as a means to obtain money. Eventually, you’ll find that an abundance of opportunities will hunt you down. This is what will help you become the best at what you do.

Opportunities beget opportunities. However, these opportunities come for those who are prepared for them. We all know the famous quote, “Success is when preparation meets opportunity.”

Thus, you can only achieve your success when you’ve set yourself up for it. That’s why I strongly believe that when the mind is ready, the money will come.

This article was originally posted here on Entrepreneur.com.

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Better Thinking For A Better World

How to think more critically and strategically in a world filled with complexity and rapid change.

Erik Kruger

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We take the act of thinking for granted. It is often seen as a skill one is born with and not one that should be cultivated over time.

As the world becomes more complex and more busy, strategic and critical thinking becomes more valuable. Strategic thinking points to the ability to decide how and when to deploy resources to achieve a certain end state.

Below are four areas of focus that will improve your strategic thinking:

1. Making Time For Reflection

Life is busy. Juggling work, friends and family, and the recurring notifications from your phone has become quite a feat. Therefore, it is becoming increasingly important to create space for reflection.

Related: One-Year Milestone: Smart Thinking That Will Ensure Your Start-Up Makes It Past The First Year

Time spent in solitude allows you to reflect and connect the dots. It temporarily takes you out of a world in which you must be reactive to survive and keep up.

My suggestion is to create a SOS (space of solitude) for at least 30 minutes every day. In this time, reflect on what has been working and what has not been working. Meditate on your goals for the future and plan for the actions that will help you get there.

2. Asking Better Questions

Many of us fall into the trap of sequential problem solving. This happens when leaders or organisations simply move from one challenge to the next and the only question they ask is “how do we overcome this challenge?”.

What about the questions like “how did we arrive here?” or “what assumptions are we making here?” or “what does better look like?”

I am not trying to give you a template of questions to ask. Merely prodding you to go beyond challenging the problem but to also challenge the thinking about the problem.

As we deepen our questions, we elevate our thinking.

Do not simply ask more questions. Ask better questions.

3. Seek More Input

Teams are great and often underutilized. How can you use your team’s knowledge, experience, and opinions in a more constructive way?

Well, how about allowing them sufficient time for reflection in solitude but also as a group. How about prompting them to look for the patterns in their environment? How about, as a leader, asking them questions that allow them to really stretch their cognitive abilities?

Even better, empower them to ask those questions themselves.

Related: Disruptive Thinking: A Winning Edge

4. Thinking rules

We often make the same mistakes over and over. Not because we have not learned the lesson but because the context changes. Or excitement gets the better of us.

During your reflection time (hopefully you have noticed the importance of this by now) you can reflect on your past decisions and figure out how you could have made better decision.

Once you have done this start jotting down a few personal rules that will help guide your decision making in the future. A personal guideline I established was that I will wait 24 hours before making any big purchase. Gadgets and golf gear often get the best of me. But simple rules like these help to guide my decision making and prevents me from making mistakes irrespective of context or emotional state.

What is next?

Starting today schedule a daily SOS. Yes, schedule it. Do not leave it to chance.

Think of it as training for your brain. A space where you get to think. Free of distraction and noise. You will be amazed at the clarity that comes from these sessions and how your productivity and effectiveness soars.

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Flourishing Through Failure And Finding Fortune

What we mean by business failure is not the entire business failing due to running out of money or not meeting the target for the year.

Tasmin Copley

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Is there a way to flourish through failure when it comes to business operations? Is it something that should be encouraged or stand as grounds for dismissal? Or is all of this just nonsense in a world attempting to pursue perfection?

Let’s talk about failure

What we mean by business failure is not the entire business failing due to running out of money or not meeting the target for the year. We’re looking into the business, into those that make it run – its people.

People are imperfect and make mistakes all the time. But rather than brushing something off as a fail or mistake does no justice when it comes to learning from it. And there are different definitions and degrees of failure based on department and responsibility. But when you mess up and fail, you affect more than just your individual performance.

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Here’s why it can be good for business

As frustrating as it is to have to “clean up” after an employee messes up, failure can actually be good for business.

  • Fewer mistakes: Failing means you can learn from it and be less susceptible to failure in that area again in the future. When you fail, you become a lot more aware of your actions than before and critically analyse before you act for fear of messing up again.
  • Relatability: This will never be a perfect world and businesses and people that don’t mess up are an intimidating and alien concept to the rest of us. If the incident affects the entire business, then use that material to tell your “success from failure” story and show everyone that you’re human and that it is possible to come back from it. Failure makes you relatable in the eyes of the public.
  • Humility: In the same breath, you (as a business) learn to be humble in the times you do succeed, as those moments can be fleeting.
  • Focus: Failure brings a newfound focus and determination to work harder and be better. It’s a shock to the system where you’re forced to bounce-back or continue to fail and jeopardise your position in the business.
  • Innovation: And, finally, failure can be good for business when it encourages innovation. You need to innovate and find a way to sort out the problem that’s been created in a way that will also discourage it from happening again.

Finding fortune in failure

The abovementioned benefits, if you will, of failure are in themselves favoured fortune found in failing. But there are things such as intelligent failures, trial and error, and inspiration that are the true game changers when it comes to failing.

Intelligent failure is defined by Sim Sitkin as: “Learning, maximised and accelerated through the act of trial, error and communicating stories.”

These failures are, almost, planned specifically to generate a profitable and successful outcome. At a risk, of course, because you never actually know what the outcome is. Having a business strategy and plan, created with so much detail, gets put to the test where a trial and error system is used to determine what works, what needs to be tweaked, and what needs to be completely discarded and redesigned.

With intelligent failure, it’s what you make of it and where your motivation to fail is to progress. Unlike preventable and unavoidable failures.

Moving forward

But, in the moment, it’s always a bit harder to see the end of a failure’s repercussions. You do need to find a way to move forward though, once you’ve learned a lesson, there’s no point in wasting time dwelling on it. You need to keep moving forward.

Related: Failure Is Not An Option – Or Is It? Your How To On How To

Do what you need to do to better yourself and avoid similar situations in the future. One way to do that is to keep learning and adapting with that knowledge. Invest your time in sales, human resources, management or marketing courses. Whatever it takes to better your skills and encourage your mind to think more strategically and carefully when it comes to doing the job.

Get it into your head now that you will never be able to please everyone. And if you can do your job, own up to your errors, but a the same time provide your solutions, you will remain valuable to the business.

Staying motivated

In order to move forward, you need to find your motivation and keep it going after you fail. And the way you do this is through support.

Every business operates as a team and you don’t have to be in it alone.

Take more calculated risks and try new things to challenge yourself to do better and find innovative solutions. This will keep you focused and motivated to keep pushing through previous disappointments as it will be a new and fun way of doing your job.

Magnify your goals, literally, on the wall or on your desktop. Keep reminding yourself what you’re striving for and understand that even when you do fail, that the goal has yet to be achieved and is still possible if you just put your mind to it.

At the end of the day, failure is whatever you make of it. You can choose to let it discourage you or you can manipulate it to help you grow and make you more resilient. Failure is an opportunity to do better next time and all successful business people fail, they just know how to deal with it.

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Want To Feel Empowered? Check Out These 17 Quotes From Successful Entrepreneurs And Leaders

To achieve success, you must constantly feel empowered.

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Feel empowered with these 17 quotes from famous leaders and entrepreneurs from around the world

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With entrepreneurship comes its own set of trials and tribulations. Whether it’s bouncing back from failure or dealing with difficult investors, every stage of the entrepreneurial journey has its challenges. And to be successful, having the endurance to push through the tough times is necessary. Often, feeling empowered and being inspired will help get you there.

Empowerment is a necessity when it comes to building confidence, moving towards your goal and not listening to any discouraging words from others. And while empowerment can come from a variety of places, it has to start from within. As Coco Chanel once said, “My life didn’t please me, so I created my life.”

Barack Obama

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Barack Obama

“The cynics may be the loudest voices – but I promise you, they will accomplish the least.” – Barack Obama

Related: 9 Warren Buffett Quotes That Will Teach You More Than Just Investing

Richard Branson

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Richard Branson

“I’m not the bravest or smartest person, but I’m courageous enough to dream big, challenge myself and take bold risks.” – Richard Branson

Larry Page

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Larry Page

“It seems like the world is crumbling out there, but it is actually a great time in your life to get a little crazy, follow your curiosity and be ambitious about it.” – Larry Page

Related: 49 Inspirational Quotes And Mantras To Help You Overcome The Stress Of Running A Business

Coco Chanel

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Coco Chanel

“My life didn’t please me, so I created my life.” – Coco Chanel

Michelle Obama

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Michelle Obama

“We need to do a better job of putting ourselves higher on our own ‘to do’ list.” – Michelle Obama

Related: 10 Leadership Quotes From The World’s Most Influential Leaders

Thomas Edison

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Thomas Edison

“If we all did the things we are really capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.” – Thomas Edison

Sheryl Sandberg

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Sheryl Sandberg

“You are not born with a fixed amount of resilience. Like a muscle, you can build it up, draw on it when you need it.” – Sheryl Sandberg

Related: 10 Motivational Quotes from Facebook Genius Mark Zuckerberg

J.K Rowling

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J.K Rowling

“As is a tale, so is life: Not how long it is, but how good it is, is what matters.” – J.K Rowling

Mark Cuban

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Mark Cuban

“Know your core competencies and focus on being great at them.” – Mark Cuban

Jeff Bezos

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Jeff Bezos

“In the end, we are our choices. Build yourself a great story.” – Jeff Bezos

Related: 25 Quotes to Inspire Your Entrepreneurial Journey

Martha Stewart

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Martha Stewart

“Sometimes, I shake if I have to do something that I’ve never done before – maybe not noticeably, but inside. But I’ll do it because I know it’s not an insurmountable task.” – Martha Stewart

Steven Spielberg

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“In your defining moments, do not let your morals be swayed by convenience or expediency. Sticking to your character requires a lot of courage.” – Steven Spielberg

Related: 50 Inspirational Quotes To Help You Achieve Your Goals

Warren Buffett

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Warren Buffett

“Should you find yourself in a chronically leaking boat, energy devoted to changing vessels is likely to be more proactive than energy devoted to patching leaks.” – Warren Buffett

Steve Jobs

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Steve Jobs

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.” – Steve Jobs

Albert Einstein

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Albert Einstein

“The value of achievement lies in the achieving.” – Albert Einstein

Related: 10 Great Quotes On The Power Of Goals

Barbara Corcoran

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Barbara Corcoran

“It’s your game; make up your own rules.” – Barbara Corcoran

This article was originally posted here on Entrepreneur.com.

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