A dream is different to a passion. Dreams are like visions. Sometimes they happen whilst you’re sleeping. Sometimes they happen when you’re reading a book. Sometimes they happen when a loved one dies.
Sometimes they happen when you’re sitting in your umpteenth corporate meeting, or when you’re talking to someone. Sometimes they happen when you’re ten years old, sometimes when you’re sixty years old. They happen in the shower. They even happen whilst singing along to Roy Orbison in your car. Sometimes they happen when you have your first child, or for no reason at all other than destiny. The point is not how your vision appeared.
The point is that you have the good fortune of having a vision. Not everyone is that lucky. Maybe your dream is to have children. Maybe it’s to live on an island. Maybe it’s to build a billion-dollar business. Maybe it’s to change the education system, or to go to Mars. Whatever it is, don’t take it for granted. Treasure it. Most people are milling through life not knowing where to go. Most people wish they had a dream. If you have a dream, you’re already blessed with more than most. You now have to chase it.
“I can’t, I don’t have enough money.” “I can’t, my wife won’t let me.” “I can’t, it’s too hard.” Blah blah blah. Excuses will only result in you lying in your bed when you’re 70 years old regretting not following your dream. It’s around then that you’ll comprehend that you only get one life, you better live it to the max.
Need money? Save up. Too difficult? Toughen up. Spouse won’t let you? Leave him, he obviously doesn’t love you. Not only will you always regret not chasing your dreams, you’re also insulting all those people out there that never had a vision, never had something to chase. They would give anything to have a dream to chase, and yet you selfishly ignore yours.
Don’t be a fool. Ignore the naysayers and take the first steps to living your life to the fullest, bringing your dreams to fruition and making the most of your short time on Earth.
And yet folks still don’t do it. They consciously ignore what their heart tells them to do. Why don’t people follow their dreams? For most people it’s because they can’t handle the uncertainty.
You Have A Choice
Maybe this is you. Maybe you just can’t handle not knowing what will happen tomorrow. So instead of following your dream and venturing into the unknown, you choose the well-trodden path. You choose to stay with your spouse because it’s embarrassing to admit you made a mistake, even though you’re desperately unhappy.
You choose your corporate job because you need the monthly pay cheque to cover your mortgage, car repayments and school fees, even though every day is soul-destroying. You choose to live your life as it is, even though you know it’s not the life you should be living.
The operative word is ‘choose’. You choose. It’s a choice. Not being happy is your choice. Having regrets is your choice. Having high overheads is your choice. Having a mortgage is your choice.
Not following your dream is your choice. Never let it be said that you didn’t make the choice to waste your short time on Earth. You can’t use the excuse of, “But I had no choice.” Not everyone has a dream, but everyone has a choice. The choice you must make is whether you’re willing to pay the price of dealing with uncertainty.
Follow Your Dream
Are you willing to live without debt? To drive a second-hand car? To not care what people think? Are you willing to lower your lifestyle and overheads in order to make yourself less vulnerable to unpleasant surprises?
Remove the fear of the unknown and you’ll be freed to follow your dream. Make sure you never look back at your life and say, “What if…” Make sure you live a simple life.