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A Mentor Is A Game Changer Believes Oresti Patricios Of Ornico Group

The mentor/mentee relationship is one of the most important foundations of business success. Here’s how to get it right.

Nadine Todd

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  • Player: Oresti Patricios
  • Company: Ornico Group
  • What they do: Ornico Group is a leading media information provider that collects, distills, measures and analyses data in order to inform clients of trends, competitor information, gap analysis and reputational risk. Ornico Group works with 85 of the top 100 advertisers in South Africa.
  • Visit: ornico.co.za

When it comes to start-ups, Oresti Patricios, founder of the Ornico Group, says he has no core advice for entrepreneurs to follow. In his experience, each entrepreneur — and their business — is different.

This isn’t to say that start-ups don’t face similar challenges — they do, but how they deal with them, and what works and doesn’t work, is influenced by personality, experience and world outlook — amongst other things.

It’s one of the reasons he finds mentoring so rewarding and fulfilling, and why he believes every entrepreneur should either have a mentor, or be a mentor.

“Over the years I’ve discovered that I learn from entrepreneurs whom I mentor as much as they learn from me,” he says.

Related: 8 Secrets Your Business Mentor Won’t Tell You

“A successful mentor/mentee relationship must be reciprocal. Whichever side you’re approaching this from, consider what both parties will get from the relationship. Unless you both benefit in some way, it won’t be a success — it will just be a waste of time for both of you, and time is a finite, infinitely valuable resource.”

1Finding a good fit

Oresti knows from personal experience that not every mentoring relationship works. “At one point I was mentoring six start-ups, all one and two-man businesses. Three were going very well, and three weren’t. I wasn’t sure if I was wasting everybody’s time, or if perhaps I wasn’t explaining things properly, so I invited all six to a group session.

“It became very clear that in three cases we had a good fit, and in the others we didn’t. I learnt how important that relationship is. Your values, personalities and goals must align. Two of the three that weren’t working left entrepreneurship and have pursued very successful corporate careers, and we still keep in touch, but the mentoring relationship didn’t work.

“That’s okay. If that happens, don’t give up. Leave on amiable terms and find a better fit. This is such an important relationship, make sure it’s the right one, and that it works for both of you. The best relationships are reciprocal, and they are so rewarding when they do work out.”

2Be willing to learn

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But you need to be open to being mentored, and not all start-up entrepreneurs are ready for the rigours of a mentor/mentee relationship — or mentors for that matter.

“I also went to university and thought I knew everything,” says Oresti. “It takes time and maturity to realise you don’t have all the answers, but it’s still a two way street.

Related: 5 Business Lessons From Billionaire Mentors

“There’s so much to address and understand in South Africa. I have a business relationship with my mentees, but our discussions cover everything, from ‘fees must fall’ to the rise of black consciousness. They open my mind, which is incredibly beneficial to me, as a South African, a business owner and most importantly for the advice I offer my clients.

“The best mentor/mentee relationships cross boundaries — cultural, age, backgrounds and experiences. That’s how you can share ideas and perspectives, and hopefully both grow.”

3Creating safe spaces

For a relationship like this to work though, honest and open discussions in a safe space are essential.

“You need to consciously create a safe space where politics, culture and business can be discussed in tandem. You can’t do this properly without evaluating all factors affecting society, markets, businesses and even politics. The goal is to learn, share and grow — together.

“I often discuss topics around the perspectives and perceptions of blackness for example. I come from a very western perspective, and have a lot to learn in this regard; similarly, I have a lot to offer when it comes to three decades of business experience with big local and international brands.

“Consider this, if I say a red car what immediately comes to mind? It might be a red Ferrari. It might be a Beetle or Porsche. The point is that we could be picturing completely different cars, and yet assume we are on exactly the same page, without digging deeper.

“These discussions can often feel uncomfortable — and they should — but they also need to happen. That’s how we grow, together. If we don’t start understanding things from the various cultural, gender, race and age perspectives in South Africa, we will never fully thrive as a society — and business has a very important role to play in this regard, not least of all as the bedrock of economic growth.”

What to look for in a mentor

As a start-up, one of the best things you can do for personal and business growth is find a mentor. Don’t look for someone who is exactly like you. Look within your industry, because industry experience can add enormous value to your business acumen, but more important is someone who can offer a different perspective to your own.

Related: How To Find A Strong Mentor To Guide You To Business Success

You also need to ensure that your goals and values align. This is a very personal relationship, and you will have difficult conversations, about your business and society in general. If you don’t respect each other, the relationship won’t work.

Don’t be shy to approach a potential mentor. The worst thing that could happen is that they say no. That’s okay, just keep looking. Many, many established business owners want to be mentors — you just have to find the right fit. Join associations and attend networking events. You can’t find your mentor if you aren’t out there meeting people.

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Find a mentor who you are willing to discuss everything with, from business to culture to politics. The more you can learn from each other, the more you will both grow. Successful mentor/mentee relationships are completely reciprocal.

Nadine Todd is the Managing Editor of Entrepreneur Magazine, the How-To guide for growing businesses. Find her on Google+.

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The Law Of Attracting Your Success

Once you discover your who, you automatically discover your why, which in turn allows you to lead with your heart rather than your head. Discover that energy source, and the world is your oyster.

John Sanei

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From the teachings of Buddha to the concept of karma, the Law of Attraction has been expressed in many ways by both ancient and contemporary thinkers. In its most simplistic interpretation, the Law of Attraction states that ‘like attracts like’.

Your ability to Magnetiize exists whether you are aware of it or not, whether you are positive or negative. You make daily decisions to choose whether you want to attract success or failure (however you define them), whether you want to live a more conscious, elegant and curious life or whether you want to keep your head down and stick to the old rules.

We are constantly Magnetiizing in every aspect of our lives, whether we’re running a business, interacting with friends or simply walking into a room. Changing how you do it can be a scary prospect, but it will move you from a stagnant space to one in which you can develop with meaning.

When you are in a space of positive magnetism, the momentum builds and your access to energy is incredible — it feels like electricity running through your body, with your ideas in focus and creativity flowing.

Magnetiize in 3 Steps

To Magnetiize is to take control of your own future and, in so doing, transform from a state of panic to a state of calm; from chasing ambition to seeking meaning.

  • The first step is a process I call Micro Inspection: How to confront the obstacles in your mind and start making decisions that are led by your heart.
  • Then comes Mega Exploration: Examining the qualities of future-forward and conscious businesses.
  • Finally, you need to bring it all together into your own reality, with the Macro Perspective: Understanding new technology and trends, and embracing the future.

Related: Global Speaker John Sanei On ‘What’s Your Moonshot?’

This holistic approach allows you to Magnetiize into your life the right type of people, appropriate access to opportunities, and the money and power you need for sustainable success. To truly achieve, you must combine Micro Inspection, Mega Exploration and Macro Perspective.

When you learn how to Magnetiize, you attract a tribe of people who you can work (and socialise) with in harmony. Your tribe should consist of elders, advisers and friends who complement your skills and personality and bring out the best version of you — the best ‘I’ behind your ‘I’. You’ll find that the tribe changes, for the better, the type of decisions you make and the discussions you have.

And as a result, your ability to Magnetiize will rub off on those around you, encouraging them also to step out of their comfort zone and to participate in shaping the future.

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Lessons From The Rich And Famous: Manage Your Money Like Oprah To Avoid Going Into Debt Like Nicholas Cage

Have a plan in place for your money, no matter how much you earn.

Christopher Tracy

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Seven-figure pay cheques are enough to buy a lifetime of financial security, right? Well, not exactly. Despite making millions, seemingly wealthy celebrities often have a tough time keeping their heads above the financial waters.

Johnny Depp spending $3 million to fire Hunter S. Thompson’s ashes out of a cannon, or Nicholas Cage shelling out $150,000 for a pet octopus, are both prime examples of how lavish lifestyles can quickly lead to debt. The two A-listers are part of a long list of actors, musicians, athletes, etc. – including Floyd Mayweather, 50 Cent and Curt Schilling – who have all experienced financial troubles.

While there’s nothing wrong with celebrities enjoying their earnings, a little budgeting can go a long way. Just take a look at Tori Spelling. After failing to pay a balance of more than $35,000, the actress was taken to court by American Express. Another example is 80s movie star Corey Haim. He became so desperate for cash after filing for bankruptcy he tried to sell his own tooth on eBay for $150, which didn’t get any buyers.

Avoid falling into any of these situations by keeping a close eye on your spending. Regardless of how much you make, the following few budgeting tips promise to help you practice safe and responsible money management.

Put a plan in place

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Nearly everyone lose sleep over their finances. Get a good night’s rest by figuring out where your money should be going long before it’s in your bank account. Spending without a plan, even if it’s only splurging on a one-time event, can have unintended consequences.

Related: 6 Money Management Tips For First-Time Entrepreneurs

One example of this is former NFL star Vince Young – after dropping $300,000 on his own birthday party he was forced to file for Chapter 11 bankruptcy. Another example is Mike Tyson, who went into debt after overspending on Bengal tigers, 110 cars and a $2-million bathtub.

That doesn’t mean you can never treat yourself, but make sure you’re not spending money faster than you can earn it. Set up a series of “fun funds” each month to splurge on nonessentials. Depending on what else you have going on that month, each fund should be adjusted accordingly.

If, for example, you’re heading out to a friend’s wedding, there may be a little less left over for eating out. Stay up to date on your spending by downloading a budgeting app. The easier it is to see where you are for that month, the better chance you have of staying under budget.

Carry around some cash

Credit cards are becoming the most common payment method among consumers. The average American currently carries around three credit cards at any given time. While they may be more convenient, credit cards can easily lure consumers into a false sense of security.

After all, a simple swipe or tap is often all it takes to complete a purchase. However, it’s important to take time to research any costly items thoroughly and ensure you won’t regret them like Nicholas Cage. He learned this lesson the hard way when he blew $276,000 on a dinosaur skull that he was forced to return after it was discovered to be an illegal import.

Curb some of your impulse spending during a night out by bringing enough cash for the occasion. In addition to avoiding spending money you don’t have, you’ll also sidestep costly ATM fees at establishments that only accept cash.

Whether it means stopping by your bank on the first of every month or getting cash back at the grocery store, do whatever it takes to have a little bit of cash on hand. As you cut back on credit card purchases, your chances of falling into debt should begin to dwindle.

Lean on an expert

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When it comes to your finances, take a lesson from the likes of OprahTyga and Hugh Jackman, who invest in financial and life coaches. Many celebrities, including Oprah, attribute their success to their coaches helping put them on the right path. Even celebrities are human and can find it difficult to stick to budgeting goals.

Personalised features of a comprehensive coaching programme, such as daily check-in texts and bi-weekly budget reviews, promise to provide you with the encouragement needed to remain accountable even as the going gets tough.

Better yet, a financial coach can take your individual goals into account. Say you decide to start a family or need to make a cross-country move. Instead of wondering what that might mean for your budget, you can work with a financial coach to modify your spending habits and investments long before a change comes to fruition.

Related: 15 Wise Money Quotes From Millionaires And Billionaires

Budgeting goes beyond class. No matter how much you make, responsible money management has shown itself to be a necessity. Avoid following in the footsteps of celebrities who face serious financial trouble by keeping a close eye on where your money is going.

As we’ve seen all too often, failing to do so can mean losing millions. Simple steps – including creating a spending plan, occasionally relying on cash and reaching out to an expert – can help you achieve financial security sooner rather than later.

And if you plan carefully enough, you might just end up with the funds you need for that pet octopus.

This article was originally posted here on Entrepreneur.com.

Related: 6 Habits Long-Time Millionaires Rely On To Stay Rich

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The 5-Hour Rule Used By Bill Gates, Jack Ma And Elon Musk

The most successful people on the planet are also the people likeliest to devote an hour a day to reading and learning.

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You just walked in the door from an exhausting day at work. You’re hungry and spent, just wanting to catch your breath for a minute. You grab something to eat and then veg out in front of the TV. Next thing you know, you’ve just binge-watched five episodes of “Jessica Jones.”

While that’s OK occasionally – we all need ways to decompress and shut down – this isn’t a healthy habit. That’s why the most successful people in the world spend their free time learning.

It’s not exactly breaking news. During his five-year study of more than 200 self-made millionaires, Thomas Corley found that they don’t watch TV. Instead, an impressive 86 percent claimed they read – but not just for fun. What’s more, 63 percent indicated they listened to audiobooks during their morning commute.

Productivity expert Choncé Maddox writes, “It’s no secret that successful people read. The average millionaire is said to read two or more books per month.”

As such, she suggests everyone “read blogs, news sites, fiction and non-fiction during downtime so you can soak in more knowledge.” If you’re frequently on the go, listen to audiobooks or podcasts.

Related: 6 Leadership Lessons From Bill Gates On His 60th Birthday

Maybe you’re thinking: Who has the time to sit down and actually read? Between work and family, it’s almost impossible to find free time. As an entrepreneur and a father, I can relate – but only to an extent. After all, if Barack Obama could fit in time to read while in the White House, what excuse do you have? He even credits books to surviving his presidency.

President Obama is far from the only leader to credit his success to reading. Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, Oprah Winfrey, Elon Musk, Mark Cuban and Jack Ma are all voracious readers. As Gates told The New York Times, reading “is one of the chief ways that I learn, and has been since I was a kid.”

Breaking down the five-hour rule

The five-hour rule was coined by Michael Simmons, founder of Empact. The concept is wonderfully simple: No matter how busy successful people are, they always “set aside at least an hour a day (or five hours a week) over their entire career for activities that can be classified as deliberate practice or learning.”

Simmons traces this phenomenon back to Ben Franklin. “Throughout Ben Franklin’s adult life, he consistently invested roughly an hour a day in deliberate learning. I call this Franklin’s five-hour rule: One hour a day on every weekday,” Simmons wrote.

For Franklin, his learning time consisted of waking up early to read and write. He established personal goals and tracked his results. In the spirit of today’s book clubs, he created a club for “like-minded aspiring artisans and tradesmen who hoped to improve themselves while they improved their community.” He also experimented with his new information and asked reflective questions every morning and evening.

The three buckets of the five-hour rule

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Today’s successful leaders have embraced Franklin’s five-hour rule by breaking the rule into three buckets.

1. Read: 

Self-made millionaires including Mark Cuban and Dan Gilbert, owner of the Cleveland Cavaliers, read between one and three hours daily. Elon Musk learned how to build rockets, which lead to SpaceX, by reading.

Besides expanding your knowledge, Jack Ma, co-founder of Alibaba, says that “reading can give you a good head start; this is often what your peers cannot obtain. Compared to others, readers are more likely to know other industries’ strategies and tactics.”

Related: 20 Crazy Things We’ve Learned About Alibaba Billionaire Jack Ma

Even if you can’t commit to an hour or more of reading every day, start with 20 to 30 minutes. I always have a book with me so when I’m waiting for a meeting to start or in the waiting room of a doctor’s office, I can read instead of waste time on my smartphone. You could also try audiobooks during your daily commute or when exercising.

So how do they find the time to read daily? They adhere to the five-hour rule.

2. Reflect: 

Other times, the five-hour rule includes reflecting and thinking. This could be just staring at the wall or jotting down your thoughts. Jack Dorsey and LinkedIn CEO Jeff Weiner are well-known thinkers, while entrepreneur Sara Blakely is a longtime journaler.

Focusing on the past gives you a chance to learn from mistakes you’ve made, as well as assess what you did correctly. As a result, you’ll be better suited to achieve your goals and improve your life. The University of Texas also found that mental rest and reflection improves learning.

Need help getting started? Schedule reflection time in your planner. I’ve found blocking out 15 to 20 minutes after lunch is ideal because I’m coming out of that post-lunch slump. But start small: Allocate five or 10 minutes per day, and then work your way up so you’re not overwhelmed.

Know the questions you want to ask. Stick with just two or three questions focused on that specific day. For example, if you attended a conference, ask, “What were the key takeaways?” and “How can I apply this to my business?”

3. Experiment: 

The third and final bucket is rapid experimentation. Ben Franklin and Thomas Edison became leading inventors and thinkers because of their experiments. We have Gmail because Google allowed employees to experiment with new ideas.

The reason experiments are so useful is because you have facts, not assumptions. Experiments show you what’s working. You can learn from your mistakes and obtain feedback from others. Best of all, experimentation isn’t that time-consuming. Most of the time, you’re testing through the same activities you’d perform without testing.

Jack Ma even recommends applying the knowledge you’ve learned to a real-life scenario. For example, after reading a book about collaboration and teamwork, you could take on new volunteer work to put that knowledge to use.

When you make learning a habit, you’ll be more successful and productive in life. By investing in a reading habit, you can ensure you’re growing yourself – and your company – every day.

This article was originally posted here on Entrepreneur.com.

Read next: What Elon Musk Can Teach You About Getting Funding for Your Start-up

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