Losing can be a good thing
Not winning Idols in 2009 was a disappointment, but there was a silver lining. Yes, I lost the record deal, but if anything I gained more drive, which has allowed me to do things my way.
Because of the Idols experience, I started pursuing my music career. I found session musicians for a cover band to capitalise on the exposure. From our first jam session we really clicked, and ended up writing a song called Real World.
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This had never been the plan. It was a real lesson that great things happen when you don’t stand in your own way, and since that day, we’ve been a collaborative band, and not cover musicians.
Opportunity is out there
New things are created every day, and it’s up to us to find that gap. Society is driven to find a way to provide new things, new services and products and art.
You just need to be willing to try. It’s reassuring to me that there’s something out there for everyone. You just need to find your niche.
Of course this means you might fail along the way. That’s also fine. Failure is good. There’s no greater teacher than pain.
Sometimes the greatest successes have an equal if not bigger chance of failure.
Don’t let the fear that you’ve never done something before hold you back. You miss 100% of the shots that you don’t take.
If you approach life with an attitude of ‘I want that, I covet it, but I’m too afraid to try,’ you’ll never find those sweet successes.
As an ADHD and dyslexic kid, I struggled at school with the more academic stuff. I was branded a ‘special needs’ child who needed discipline. What it actually taught me was to stop listening to opinions; to hold onto the good and listen to that.
Sometimes there will be detractors who can offer good advice, but never take the bad to heart. Know who you are, motivate yourself, believe in yourself.
Confidence is a skill
Having confidence in what you do is a learnt skill. It’s not intrinsic. You have to work at it every day. Like any skill though, the more you practice, the better you become, and once you’ve got that inner momentum, you’re a lot more empowered to take on the world and try new things.
My wife, Kim and I started our first business, Think Theatre, as a company that customises theatre performances for corporate events and parties.
Today that business is a sister company of Think Entertainment, and Kim not only specialises in creating customised theatre events, but is an agent as well.
In the middle of building up that business and focusing on my own stage career I entered Idols, which led to forming The Graeme Watkins Project.
This has not only opened doors in the music business, but the business world as well. If you’ve got a lot of energy, creativity and ideas, it’s incredible how much you can squeeze into each week.
A common goal
My latest venture is a business collaboration with Nathan Ro from Lonehill Estate.
We recognised that there’s a need in the corporate market for communication mediums that bridge the gap between base level staff and upper management.
Hive Mind aims to create an accessible corporate language through the use of various mediums, including video production, encouraging MDs and CEOs to use that as a tool to communicate with their staff.
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We’re drawing on our own experiences from attending so many events, but also tapping into other skills. Nathan is a designer; I understand staging and productions, and of course we can score music.
The name Hive Mind Industries came from the idea of a hub of people with creative minds, all working towards a common goal. There’s huge value in surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals, where each person has something to offer.
In today’s landscape you don’t need to be everything to everyone – you just need great partnerships.
Our lead guitarist, Ryno Zeelie, runs Figure of 8 Productions, Matthew Marinus, our drummer, Dream Canvas Videography, and our bassist, Rudo Pieterse, is involved in events.
What’s really great is that our synergies work beyond the band. On the business side, we all outsource to each other. We’re all good at what we do, we’re all passionate, and we don’t want each other’s projects to fail.
Here’s How Bosses From Hell Helped 6 Entrepreneurs Grow
From control freaks to being unco-operative, founders share what they learned from their worst boss.
In business, sometimes the most valuable lessons come from the worst teachers. We asked six entrepreneurs: What’s the greatest thing you learned from a bad boss?
1. Bring everyone in
“A former boss was very hierarchical and discouraged collaboration. Everyone reported directly to her, and interdepartmental meetings were practically prohibited. It meant that only our boss had the full picture – we missed a lot of opportunity for alignment and cooperation. Today at our company, it’s a priority to hold regular team meetings and foster a strong culture of collaboration. It’s crucial that our team members weave collective sharing into the fabric of their day-to-day interactions.” – Melissa Biggs Bradley, founder and CEO, Indagare
2. Be vulnerable
“Don’t be afraid to show your emotions! I worked for a partner at McKinsey who was an incredible person but an awful manager because he kept his feelings bottled up. After a client presentation went awry, our team didn’t know where we stood with our manager. It was tense, awkward and demotivating. Showing vulnerability and letting others know when you’re genuinely upset can help everyone externalise their emotions, build trust and reassure employees that they aren’t alone. It sends a clearer message than stone-faced silence.” – Leo Wang, founder and CEO, Buffy
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3. Lend a hand
“I worked for someone who would never help out the junior staff with their work, even if he was finished with his own – he’d simply pack up and leave early. I now make an extra effort to ask my staff if they can use a hand when my own workload is light. It’s created a culture that feels more like a tight-knit team and less like a hierarchy.” – Adam Tichauer, founder and CEO, Camp No Counselors
4. Move as a group
“When I was a nurse manager, I had a boss with no experience in healthcare. She wanted to change our process for keeping patients from getting blood clots. I knew it was a mistake, but she insisted. Ultimately, the change failed. It taught me the importance of empowering staff to speak up. At Extend Fertility, we collect feedback from customers via surveys. Results are shared with our staff, and together we develop action plans to address negative experiences. It’s the employees who interact with patients on a daily basis who have the best solutions.” – Ilaina Edison, CEO, Extend Fertility
5. Trust your team
“I once worked for a woman who joined our team after I had been working there for a while. Every time I stood up, she’d ask me where I was going, whether it was to the bathroom or to the printer. She had a fear of not having control over my time and work. As a young adult, this behaviour really demoralised me, especially since I had excelled at the job for years prior. My leadership style is less neurotic. Once my team members have my trust, I’m pretty hands-off.” – Denise Lee, founder and CEO, Alala
6. Respect others’ time
“Early in my career, I had a project manager who’d wait until the very last minute to review work, then convey lots of new information and requests. This happened at the end of the day or, worse, after hours, when I was home. It was demoralising, inefficient and disrespectful. In my career, I’m conscious about reviewing work in a timely and complete way so my team can successfully incorporate my feedback without generating a last-minute crisis – or lingering resentment.” – Kirsten R. Murray, principal architect and owner, Olson Kundig
This article was originally posted here on Entrepreneur.com.
11 Things Very Successful People Do That 99% Of People Don’t
Consistency is a big part of succeeding. The top 1% of performers in the world know this is the secret to their success.
Becoming wealthy and leaving an impact on the world is not an easy feat. If it were, everyone would go around doing it. At that point, it would not be much of an accomplishment at all.
Rather, being extremely successful requires an extreme amount of work. Especially when there is nobody looking. The best people have developed habits that help them reach their goals. These routines are not necessarily challenging to form, but they take consistent effort over extended periods of time. Creating these tendencies in your own life will propel your success.
Here are 11 things, that 99% of people (myself included) do not do, but really should.
Brian Tan Of FutureLab.my – Bridging The Knowledge Gap Through Social Learning
Brian Tan a young Malaysian Entrepreneur whom has built the largest social learning platform in South-East Asia.
“The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away” – Pablo Picasso
As a keen observer of the behaviour of successful entrepreneurs I have learnt that:
“You do not attract what you want but you attract what you are”
Brian Tan truly believes in what FutureLab stands for and therefore has attracted the belief of key partners such as Cradle whom has invested in his ground-breaking project.
Brians’ gift is to solve big problems. In unison with his two other co-founders he is giving this gift away in the Form of FutureLab, a company obsessed with learning and more specifically bridging the gap between education and careers.
Brian wants to play a role in making humanity better by applying his knack for solving unique problems and firmly believes that quality and ongoing education is a powerful catalyst for positive change. FutureLab is a social learning platform featuring diverse applications that not only connects mentees to mentors but also empowers several companies to track their employees utilising Futurelabs’ technology as they navigate through development and talent development programs.
Slowly but surely FutureLab is becoming much needed feedback loop between university and industry and brings exposure to people who have not had it before. Brian believes that a lot of people have not fullfiled their potential due to low standards of education in general.
I fully realised that I was engaging a modern entrepreneur as he described his company culture as:
‘Geeky, awesome & badass.’
He elaborated on that by explaining that his team do not follow trends, that they authentically like what they like, and do what they love in their unique way. When you act according to the Leadership principle of Authenticity you avoid having regrets as you did not apply unnecessary energy to attempt to become someone that you are simply not.
This unique company is founded upon three core values which flows through all the activities that they engage in:
- Giving back to society
- Continuous Learning
- Creating your own reality.
The FutureLab team does not only pay lip service to these values but instead actualise them as a matter of regular practice. Brian gives his team ‘homework’ in terms of things that they need to learn and the CEO of FutureLab himself is engaged in a lifetime commitment to learning. Regular ‘Stand up meetings’ are held were team members give feedback and hold each other accountable.
Brian is a Biochemist by trade whom constantly seeks opportunity to learn more about business and has completed several business programs to learn how to build a company which included spending 3 weeks at Stanford University studying entrepreneurship and meeting teams from Google, Apple, Facebook and Pinterest as part of a government initiative for the top 25 Malaysian start-ups. This young entrepreneur believes that his passion for teamwork has helped him a great deal to transform from being a biochemist to being an entrepreneur. He finds joy in ‘pushing a team forward’, as he puts it and loves seeing his team members grow in self-confidence and belief in the vision of the company that he co-founded. He has a keen knack for finding potential and then helping his team members to unleash their inherent talents.
What follows is Brians’ clear description of how Futerelab obtained cradle funding and how they managed to secure the top universities in Malaysia as clients, in his own words:
“We wanted to prove that FutureLab was solving an actual problem before applying for Cradle funding so what we did was to invite mentors from specific industries (at this early ideation stage of FutureLab it was our own personal networks).
“We started with mentors from Management consulting and posted a google form up on Low Yat and Facebook to see whether anyone wanted to speak to them. Within a couple of days, we had 20 people signup to meet our mentors. At this point, we decided to close the google form since we didnt know what kind of people would show up. We set the meet up at a local coffee shop and only spent RM 50 on buying coffee for the 5 mentors from Accenture, BCG, PWC, Ethos Consulting and Deliotte. We split the mentees into mini groups and they cycled from one mentor to the next, the last stop for each mentee group was with me telling them what we are trying to build, how much we are thinking of charging and how would the system work. We got really good feedback from the participants and the mentors.
Me being a scientist by training, I like to see whether results are repeatable so we organised 6 of these meet-ups over the whole year inviting mentors from different industries, lawyers, accountants, entrepreneurs, doctors and we even tested on online mentoring session using google hangouts. At this point, we were convinced that FutureLab should exist. This is when we applied to Cradle for Funding along with all the evidence we collected on why FutureLab should exist.
When FutureLab was first launched, we already had 40 mentors and 60 mentees that were waiting to use the platform that we were building. Mentees really enjoyed speaking to our mentors and vice versa for mentors, our growth has been mostly from word of mouth from mentors and mentees eventually universities started being aware of our mentoring community and started asking us to get more involved with their students. Our mentors are big advocates for our platform and they are based in large companies around the world. So they play a big role in opening doors for us.
Yet another key business learning he has acquired is to always guard against complacency and this knowledge is encapsulated by the following quote that he shared:
“What got you here cannot get you there”
Meaning that the same behaviours and habits that got you to this point will not be enough to move you forward, you have to keep on evolving to remain relevant and successful.
Brian is passionate about FutureLab and business in general and reminds us that:“When you are passionate work is the fun part of the day”. His advice to other entrepreneurs is to truly find a project that you are passionate about and truly believe in. He is most certainly passionate about the future of his projects and wants to build an eco-system that generates high volumes of cash that will empower his company to invest in start-up projects.
In general he wants to invest in entrepreneurs that are solving ‘big problems’ and wants FutureLab to become an innovation company. He poses this challenging question to those thinking on starting their entrepreneurial journey:
‘Are you merely attempting to do what others are already doing or are you really solving a problem?”
He finds that many entrepreneurs overthink and then do little. The more you do and if done at a rapid pace the more you learn to become adaptable and will find that there are many ways to solve a problem.
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